There are few things I love more than the changing of the seasons. As someone who is constantly chasing newness, (new cultures, new foods, new ideas,) I adore the feeling of a fresh start. Often by the time a new season rolls around, I’ve had my fill of the last one and now I’m PUMPED for whatever the next one is about to bring: spring flowers, summer BBQ’s, autumn pumpkins and winter holidays (to name just a few.)
Unbeknownst to them, two of my biggest life gurus are Chip and Joanna Gaines. They are magical unicorns who seem to radiate nothing other than success, positivity and all around fantastical-ness. They are arguably reclaiming “The Midas Touch” as “The Gaines Touch.” One of the things I love most about them though, is how they constantly discuss the different “seasons of their lives.” This idea recently sparked something within me. I began to notice that there are seasons within myself as well: a season of cleansing, a season of curiosity, a season of creation and a season of calm. Shaping my life this way feels much more conducive to achieving my goals than the ways I’ve tried in the past. I am a bit of a self-growth nerd and always looking for innovative ways to be the best me possible.
(Yes, I’m a Capricorn.)
Last year, I tried focusing on 12 different goals for each 12 months of the year. This proved to be semi-effective, but didn’t render the results I was really hoping for.
But for 2018, I’ve been testing out this new methodology. Rather than segmenting my life into 12 pieces, it feels more natural to honor the seasons my heart and mind tend to move through at their own pace.
A Season of Cleansing-
This season is marked by detoxification, preparation and creating space.
This generally coincides with springtime as it seems to invigorate all of us enough to do massive bouts of “spring cleaning.” The new year is still ripe and we all want to freshen things up and make room for a better us. I take this time to detox everything from my wardrobe to my diet and purge my life from any bad habits and toxic people. So yeah, don’t piss me off in April. Jk
A Season of Curiosity-
This season is marked by discovery, consumption and animation.
As that need for detoxification beings to wane, suddenly I have the urge to consume, filling up all the space I’ve just created. I think it’s a pretty natural process especially in such a consumerist society. We naturally tend to want to fill everything from silences to empty closets. However, this year, instead of consuming more STUFF, I’ve chosen to satisfy this hunger by devouring knowledge. And “devour” is the perfect descriptor here because I have been absolutely ravenous for books lately. I explore every avenue of curiosity by taking classes, reading, asking questions and all so that I’m well prepared for my next season.
A Season of Creation-
This season is marked by action, energy and determination.
This is the time I put all my knowledge to good use. It’s easy to become a perpetual student, as understanding the process of something is generally much easier than the actual application of the knowledge. This season is perhaps a bit fierce, akin to a blazing day of summer though they don’t always coincide. But it’s a time to take action and turn all that brain food into the energy that propels me into my dreams.
A Season of Calm-
This season is marked by self love, coziness, and giving.
It’s the time to scale everything back, understand what worked well, what I could do better and learn to be mindful again. I enjoy the fruits of my labor, the little things and get adamant about creating equal parts “me time,” and time for loved ones. It’s selfishness and selflessness in harmony.
Each season blends into the next and they often include elements of each other, especially the one immediately preceding or following it. Just as some spring days feel hot enough to be summer, a day within my energetic season of creation can feel a lot more like a day within my season of calm. In this way, I remain balanced (well.. at least I try to. This is all sounding a lot more zen than I usually feel.) I don’t force myself into starting a new season until intuitively it feels right. Sometimes one needs to be much longer than another but when it’s time to move on, I know.
Anyway, I’m curious to know (as I’m currently in the Season of Curiosity,) if this resonated with any of you. Do you feel moved by any specific “seasons” throughout the year and if so, what are they? Let me know below or on Instagram or Youtube!
Signing off with peace, love and pixie dust,